10 Moments Of The Past 10 Years

Last Friday I turned 30-years old. I talked about this a couple weeks ago in this blog post. 

After thinking about this moment, I feel the best way to move forward is to acknowledge the most meaningful moments in the past decade of my life. These ten moments include times of sorrow, joy, confusion and clarity. The ones that are hyperlinked go to blog posts that describe these moments. It’s been an amazing decade:

10. The Alma Mater - In the past decade, I finished my undergraduate degree at Northwestern University and also completed my Master’s there. When I think about my experience, all the things the learned and all the people that I met, one thing stands out as representing what it means to have gone to Northwestern: The Northwestern University Alma Mater. This song captures the spirit of Northwestern University, which served me well for the past decade and will continue to do so for the rest of my life.

  

9. The Return of Bruce Springsteen & The E Street Band -  First it was seeing Bruce Springsteen & The E Street Band at Comiskey Park. Then it was the albums, Magic and Working On A Dream. Along with Springsteen’s solo album and his Seeger Sessions work, this body of work represents the most important musical influence of my last decade. Above my desk there this a picture of Bruce walking into a stadium. It’s a reminder of the energy and life that music can bring and what it means to serve an audience.

8. Hope In Politics - The campaign and nomination of President Obama forever changed the way that I viewed politics and my life. I still believe in the system because I believe in the American people. Obama taught me that cynicism has no place in the world that is so full of hope and possibility. A lot has changed since his inauguration but what hasn’t changed is how that moment continues to inspire.

7. Losing My First Job - When I found out my contract wasn’t renewed from my first teaching job, I was devastated. It wasn’t the right place for me but I don’t know if I had the courage to leave on my own. Without this push, I wouldn’t have become a teaching assistant or ended up in the job I have now that I love. This was the beginning of a journey that started with me in pieces rebuilding myself into the man that I am proud to be now.

6. The Purple Reaction: On November 3rd, 2008 after months of consideration I started this blog. It started off as a blog about music but has become so much more. The subjects have become wide and varied but it’s never stopped being a celebration of life. I feel proud and grateful to have been able to share this creation with all of my readers.

5. Buffy Getting Attacked: There are so many moments with Buffy that I cherish but it was the attack and all the emotions that accompanied this event that showed me how much Buffy means to me. Buffy is not just a dog, she’s family and she’s one of my best friends.

4. My first student - "Sarah may not be the reason that I continue to be an educator, but she was the reason I fell in love with teaching."

3. Saying goodbye to my Grandfather -  The eulogy I wrote for my grandfather was one of the hardest things I’ve ever written. Surprisingly it wasn’t that hard to give. Seeing my family and feeling the love in the room as I spoke about how much my grandfather meant to all of us was a celebration of life.

2. Amelia - On March 13th, at 10:47pm my niece Amelia was born. Hearing about her birth over the phone simply made the world feel beautiful. I haven’t met her, but I am overcome with emotions thinking about that moment, being her uncle and how proud I am of my brother and sister-in-law.

Amelia you are proof that in this dark world there is hope,  that love unites us beyond the differences that divide and that life is wonderful.  You are beautiful, you are important and you will change the lives of the people you encounter on this journey called life for the better.  I know this for a fact because you have already changed mine.   

1. Meeting Diana for the first time - I don’t remember what we said to each other when we first met, I simply remember something different about Diana. After ten years, I can finally articulate what I couldn’t back then. Diana is simply the most amazing person I have ever met in my life.  Everything that I’ve gone through in the last ten years only holds meaning because I’ve shared these moments with Diana.

Year 2: Week 28 – Collaborative Learning

During a presentation about technology in education, I heard this fantastic quote about how to approach the integration of technology into curriculum: “Technology is not about presentation, it’s about allowing students new ways to experience learning collaboratively.” After hearing this quote, I decided to try to infuse as much collaborative learning into my classroom as possible.

The idea of collaborative learning is having students and teachers work in a way that they are helping each other learn. This is opposed to the idea of a teacher standing in front of a class and students learning simply by whatever the teacher is presenting.

While there were some things I tried that did not go perfectly well, my focus on this type of learning was a lot of fun.

In my 3rd grade class I had students play a game on the recorder. One person would play a five note melody using only the notes we had learned and the other student would try to mimic the melody in response. The idea was to see how many times it would take for the student to figure out his or her partner’s melody. What I discovered was that student spent a good amount of time not only playing and imitating but also helping each other out. By explaining a fingering a student is teaching the other student and reinforcing his or her own learning. Yes, it got loud and it may have seemed chaotic on the surface but the students had a lot of fun and worked really hard.

Another lesson focused on collaboration was with my 8th grade band class. During this lesson I divided up the band into three bands with equal instrumentation. I told them to choose part of the piece that we were working on and then told them to rehearse that section by themselves and be ready to perform for the whole group at the end of class.  I floated between the different groups and answered questions but overall I let the student figure out how to rehearse the music.

At first none of the groups were focused at all but then some students took leadership roles and started rehearsing the group. People were asking for help while having positive discussions about how to improve their playing.  By the end of the class I had three solid performances that demonstrated musical improvement.

With both of these lessons, I didn’t really have to do very much teaching while they were working but I did have to set up very specific expectations and a clear structure for the students to work within. Also, I was very deliberate in the partners the I assigned for my 3rd graders and the groups for my 8th graders.  These are also classes that understand behavior expectations very clearly after months of reinforcement.  I would not do these kinds of lessons with students who I did not know well.        

While there was a lot of good learning that happened, some students didn’t engage well and didn’t improve very much.  However there are always students who don’t engage in a larger teacher-centric lesson either. If you try a lesson focused on collaborative student learning you have to understand that a lot of what they are learning has less to do with the subject material and more to do with their experience as a learners.

The greatest part of these lessons was the fact that the students took ownership of the activities.  They wanted to make it work and they took pride in what they were doing.  It was like handing over the keys to the car.  Placing the learning in students hands gives them a feeling of self-determination.  This type of learning doesn't work for all students, but challenging students with this level of collaboration can have amazing results.

Yes, there is satisfaction in learning, but what makes it meaningful and exciting is when we share our learning with other people.  So, give this a try.  Let the kids have the keys to the car and see where they go.  They may end up in a completely different place then you wanted them to go but that may not be such a bad thing especially if they enjoyed the journey.

My Next 30 Years by Phil Vassar

There's many amazing things about Diana's maternal Grandmother.  One of them is the fact that she can find a printed card for almost any occasion.  It's not just that she sends these cards that are special, but she always finds the perfect card.  Since I married Diana, I've started receiving these cards.  I'm not joking when I say that I've numerous cards directed at "my grandson-in-law"  in the printed message.  I didn't even know they made these cards until I started receiving them from her. 

Earlier this week I got musical greeting card featuring this song: 



Though I don't really have any scores to settle and no, I'm not going to start eating salads, I love the spirit of this song.  While I don't really expect to have anything else figured out after my next 30 years, I do think I'll feel better about that fact.   Vassar's optimism and outlook on the "rest of life," is exactly the message I expect from Grandma.

Wait a second, isn't this the guy who did that "Carlene" song? I love that song!



Not quite a stadium rocker Phil, but what a nice sense of nostalgia.

American Land by Bruce Springsteen

I am proud to be a son of immigrants.

My parents came from Taiwan to American in 1978, worked hard, and made a life for themselves. Through their perseverance and determination they created for opportunities for themselves and my brother and I. I believe that the mixture of cultures that created my identity makes me American. This land that my parents came to was a place that dreams came true for them, which gives me hope every day. If my parents could make it in this place coming from Taiwan, there’s nothing I can’t do here.

I think about those dreams my parents had coming to America. They didn’t have a bad life in Taiwan, but they wanted to have a different one. The illusions of what America was were plentiful, but there was something more, as Bruce Springsteen puts it “a fire down below” in “American Land.”



“American Land,” by Bruce Springsteen is the only song I’ve ever heard that the captures pride I have in a being a son of an immigrant. On the surface it seems like a simple “America is the land where everything is perfect,” not unlike, “There Are No Cat In American,” from American Tail.



Bruce is careful to imbed lines about opportunity with realities of immigrant life. Yes, there are “diamonds in the sidewalks,” but the “treasure” is only for “hardworking men.” The song starts as a celebration of hope but the second verse dips deep into the immigrant experience working and sweating through the day. The music keeps on celebrating through this work, because there is pride in the work. Yes, there were crazy dreams that got us to America, but what’s even better is sweating to make a life and feeling that it can become something.

In the third verse, Bruce lays out all the contributions to America immigrants brought, connecting the song to modern times. 

They died building the railroads, they worked to bones and skin
They died in the fields and factories, names scattered in the wind
They died to get here a hundred years ago, they're still dying now
Their hands that built the country we're always trying to keep down.

It’s a powerful statement reminding us that we have been trying to keep immigrants down from the moment America became a country and this has never stopped. The reason why Bruce melds Irish folk music with rock music is to remind us that these things that happened in the past are still happening right now.

Bruce doesn’t make excuses for the immigrants. He doesn’t say that they deserve hand-outs. He portrays immigrants through their hard work they did regardless of how badly they were often treated. This is something to celebrate and should be a source of pride because we are all immigrants.  

I'm reminded that I'm the son of an immigrant every time someone asks me where I'm from or whenever something come up about Asian culture and everyone in the room looks to me.  Sometimes it's a little weird, but every time a little smile emerges as I respond to whatever has been said. 

Being reminded that I'm the son of immigrants is a reminder of how proud I am of my parents, how proud I am of my heritage and that dreams can come true through hard work in this beautiful American Land.  

Year 2: Week 27 – Stop Talking

One of the most challenging parts of classroom management is to get kids to quiet down. It’s something I struggle with every day and an issue that is present even with experienced master teachers.

Part of dealing with this students talking in class is understanding that developing minds before and after puberty do not have full control over their impulses. I expect that students will talk out of turn in my class to some degree. I call them out on how they are rude, but I still expect it to happen because they are kids and they are learning how control themselves.

One thing you have to think about is your priorities. Getting a class to be completely silent isn’t really that hard. You let them get out their cell phones or ipods and tell them be quiet or they will be punished. Chances are you may have to quiet some kids down but kids will happily sit in silence if they are entertained. In this situation none of the kids are actually engaged in learning anything, so what’s the point?

A teacher who can keep a classroom absolutely quiet is nothing to admire. It’s doesn’t take any real skill to scream at kids into submission or threaten them with punishments when they talk to keep them quiet. But I don’t think classes should be out of control either.

I like a classroom with energy. I love it when a teacher asks a question and a kid is so excited to offer and idea they blurt out. Yes, they need to learn how not to do that, but it’s a sign that the student feel like they are in a safe learning environment. While I enjoy this, this can easily get out of control so how do you strike that balance between energy and submission?

Here’s a couple ideas that I keep in mind:

• Don’t quiet a class down unless you have something significant and important to say to your class. While your class is chatting, get your thoughts together and then quiet them down and then speak. If what you say actually means something to them, the next time you quiet down they will simmer down faster. However, if you don’t have anything for them, they really need to hear, it’s going to be a constant struggle to keep their attention.

• Be consistent: I often see teachers be very inconsistent with their standards. The most common example I see is when a teacher insists everyone does not interrupt or speak out but provides positive feedback when certain students provide good answers but without waiting to be called on. This is not cool. Your need to have a student respond to your questions does not supersede basics of their behavior. A student interrupting with the right answer is being rude just like a student interrupting with a non sequitur.

• Model: If you don’t want your kids to interrupt you, don’t interrupt them. You may think that you don’t but you may. Video tape yourself teaching and see if you are responding to your student when they speak the way that you want them to respond to you. This is important, students can smell hypocrisy a mile away.

• Most importantly, figure out why you're students are talking.  Really think about it.  Student talk in class because they are distracted, confused, dealing with emotional problems, feel discouraged because the class is too hard, feel bored because the work is too easy and a multitude of other reasons.  Most of these reasons can be dealt with through creative teacher and better planning.  

I'm not a master teacher, but I've found that by keeping those four points in mind, I've been able to keep my kids with me enough to enjoy teaching and working with my students.  There's no silver bullet to getting kids to stop talking but by treating your students as individuals and figuring out the why behind their misplaced words, you're halfway there.    

The Big Man

Sometimes we don't realize how important people are until they are gone.  Clarence Clemons died June 18th, last year.  When I watched footage of him performing with the E Street Band, he didn't really seem like anything special.  In this live performance of "10th Avenue Freeze Out," he had a great presence on stage but for some reason I didn't think much of it.



Recently Bruce Springsteen performed this song at the Apollo and when he sang about the "Big Man" joining the band, something remarkable happened.



He stopped the band where Clarence usually played a saxophone fill and there was a gaping musical hole.  The reason why I overlooked Clarence for so long was because he fit so seamlessly into Bruce's voice.  He wasn't merely a response to what Bruce sang about he was an extension of it.

Visually they seemed like such a mismatched pair but like Bruce talked about in his recent Rolling Stone interview, they were best friends, family and brothers.  The symbolism of them leaning on each other on the cover of Born To Run not only displayed a musical partnership but harmony between  races. 

Now I finally understand why Bruce opened his Superbowl Halftime show leaning up against Clarence. To replicate that image is to communicate what we need from each other and the power of friendship.



So who does Bruce lean against now? Who do we all lean against when the people we love leave us?  I don't know, but somewhere in Bruce standing tall encouraging his fans to fill the silence Clarence left behind, we may find some answers.   

Go Ahead And Rain by JD Souther

JD Souther could have been a member one of the most successful bands in pop music history, The Eagles. He was instrumental in the creation of the band encouraging Glen Frey to play with a group of musicians behind his then-girlfriend Linda Ronstadt. Souther co-wrote some of the Eagles most popular songs, played with the band but refused to join.

As the Eagles developed as a band, members of The Eagles including Don Henley continued to sing his praises and work with him. Even when the Eagles were the hottest ticket around in the 1970s, Souther stayed out of the limelight focusing on his songwriting over fame.

I first became of aware of Souther when Don Henley talked about him in an introduction to “The Heart Of The Matter.”



I praised this song in an earlier post for capturing the nuance and emotional complexity of love.

I wasn’t really sure how much Souther contributed to the song so when I started to listen to JD Souther’s most recent solo album Natural History, I didn’t really know what to expect. The first track on the album is “Go Ahead And Rain.”  After about thirty seconds in, I was absolutely speechless.



Everything about this song is what I love about The Eagles. To say this song is beautiful doesn’t begin to acknowledge the depth of the songwriting. The melody and the chords feel organic and natural but twist and wind around each other in a fresh and interesting way.

The lyrics are easy to understand on a literal level. Like Hemingway, Souther manages to use simple language to express the complexity of the human experience. The basic idea of this song is that he asking a girl to love him which he describes as “let it rain down on me.” There’s a beauty in being surrounded by love as you would be with rain but also a mystery and darkness as rain often represents sorrow. Lines like “you know this old world would keep spinning around without a lucky guy like me,” adds a layer of self-doubt which Souther mixes with hope as he asks this woman to love him.

He doesn’t know how this woman goes on with his sorrows, but that doesn’t stop his dream. It’s like  he doesn’t understand this woman, but she’s part of him all of the same. At the song, Souther mournfully sings “because maybe things will never be the same again.”

Every encounter, no matter how seemingly insignificant changes . Sometimes we don’t sense it but sometimes we can. It is the moments that change us that we can’t deny that open up ourselves to take action to make our dreams reality.

JD Souther is an interesting figure in popular music and though it may be hard to understand why he passed up being part of one of the most successful bands ever that he helped create, I'm glad that he understands the depth of the human heart to articulate to us the parts of ourselves that only music can express.